Category Archives: privilege

Lessons Learned

Apparently, author Sara Gruen has landed herself in deep trouble. Hatchimals are apparently this year’s hot toy, reportedly comparable to the Cabbage Patch Kids of my youth. Gruen reportedly is working on a documentary to free an unnamed innocent man serving life without parole for a crime he did not commit and has racked up $150,000 in legal fees. So when she heard about Hatchimals she decided to spend about $23,000 on Black Friday and then turn around to resell them at the uber upsold price on $189.00 (suggested retail price being 59.99).

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Fellow White People, It’s Past Time We Admitted It

Back when I was a college student I was driving my old Mitsubishi at night when I was stunned to see police headlights in my rearview mirror. I drove to a populated parking lot and pulled over, where a police officer informed me I had a busted tail light. He checked my licence and registration and wrote a citation for the light, and left. At no point was I ever instructed to put my hands in the air.

This morning I read about how a black man named Philando Castile was shot to death by a cop while reaching for his wallet during a traffic stop in Minnesota. Castile was pulled over because, like me, he had a busted tail light. Unlike me, he was treated like a criminal from the start. The first thing that the officer did was instruct Castile and his girlfriend, Reynolds, to put their hands in the air. For the record, Reynolds’ four year old daughter was in the backseat, which for a white family would likely have completed the innocent family image, but not for a black one. Once again, at no point during my traffic stop was I, a white woman, ever told to put my hands in the air. Further, as a woman driving alone at night, I was even able to drive a block after noticing the headlights so I could get to a crowded parking lot where I could feel safe pulling over. A black person trying to pull over at a safe spot would likely have been accused of attempting to flee.

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